以下是FAQ Frequently Asked Questions，to a WAHM (Work-At-Home-Mom)/ SAHM (Stay-At-Home-Mom).
“What do you do with all that free time?”
“It must be nice not to have to work.”
"...Being an at-home mom definitely qualifies as a full-time job."
我的回答：
“问这以上两个问题的人，一定没亲自顾过孩子（24/7那种），又或者患有同理心贫乏症...其实唯一的FREE应该是FREE免费（虽然无价）的无微不至和付出吧” ^^
“When do you plan to return to your career?”
“Asking when also implies that staying home is a temporary detour, when it might not be for that person,” notes Steiner.It’s better to ask if a woman is interested in returning to her previous career, not when."
我的回答：
“每个人的幸福模式并不一样，别把自己的幸福定义及价值观 - 套在他人身上。
这是一种尊重，对自己，也是对他人...
Both working mom and work/ stay-at-home-mom are all challenging roles, so let's not judge.
没话题的时候，沉默可以更让人感觉自在。” ^^
“Do you feel like getting your (Degree)Master’s was a waste of time?”
"Nothing conveys a lack of respect for the job of mothering more than this jab. “Raising children well is hard, priceless work, but our capitalistic society places more value on entrepreneurship and money-making,” adds Steiner.
我的回答：
“社会总会将一个人所挣到的薪水（和职位名称），来评价一个人的价值。
可惜（其实也不可惜啦）没有一个数目号码，可以评价妈妈（或爸爸）将孩子教育+照顾+养育得健康+安全+快乐+有礼貌+懂得感恩。
虽然这对一个孩子的成长和社会温情影响深远，这毕竟无法标上价钱。 因为是无价的。” ^^
“I could never do what you do. I’d die without adult conversation.”
我的回答：“这的确不是个很成熟的‘adult conversation'...” ^^
"...Being an at-home mom definitely qualifies as a full-time job."
我的回答：
“问这以上两个问题的人，一定没亲自顾过孩子（24/7那种），又或者患有同理心贫乏症...其实唯一的FREE应该是FREE免费（虽然无价）的无微不至和付出吧” ^^
“When do you plan to return to your career?”
“Asking when also implies that staying home is a temporary detour, when it might not be for that person,” notes Steiner.It’s better to ask if a woman is interested in returning to her previous career, not when."
我的回答：
“每个人的幸福模式并不一样，别把自己的幸福定义及价值观 - 套在他人身上。
这是一种尊重，对自己，也是对他人...
Both working mom and work/ stay-at-home-mom are all challenging roles, so let's not judge.
没话题的时候，沉默可以更让人感觉自在。” ^^
“Do you feel like getting your (Degree)Master’s was a waste of time?”
"Nothing conveys a lack of respect for the job of mothering more than this jab. “Raising children well is hard, priceless work, but our capitalistic society places more value on entrepreneurship and money-making,” adds Steiner.
我的回答：
“社会总会将一个人所挣到的薪水（和职位名称），来评价一个人的价值。
可惜（其实也不可惜啦）没有一个数目号码，可以评价妈妈（或爸爸）将孩子教育+照顾+养育得健康+安全+快乐+有礼貌+懂得感恩。
虽然这对一个孩子的成长和社会温情影响深远，这毕竟无法标上价钱。 因为是无价的。” ^^
“I could never do what you do. I’d die without adult conversation.”
我的回答：“这的确不是个很成熟的‘adult conversation'...” ^^
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